Raising Ty
Today I just wanted to express how grateful I am for the 2 boys in my life. I cannot imagine my life without my wonderful husband Silas or my precious little boy Tyson. The transition into parenthood has been so incredible, and I am so thankful to be able to share this journey with Silas. He reminded me last night that not only are we raising Ty, but he is raising us too! We are all in this together and learning how to be a family. I think the hardest part for me has been my changing roles, and trying to figure out how to do all the things I did before I was a mom. I am slowly coming to realize that my life will never be the same and to embrace the changes rather than try and fit them into my old life. I'm learning how to be both a mother and a wife, which is not always easy, especially in these early weeks and months. I am learning that every day will be an adventure and to expect the unexpected. I am learning that sitting on the couch holding my baby all day is the most perfect use of my time possible. I am learning that I can't do everything I used to, and learning to let go. I am learning how important it is that I take care of myself so that I can take care of my family. I am learning that sometimes babies just cry for no reason and thats ok. I am learning that it is a lot harder to work and be a mother than I thought it would be. I am learning that it takes time to become the mother I want to be, and to not be so hard on myself in the meantime. Through all of this, I am learning to just be thankful for every breath my son takes, and every moment I have to spend time with my family. They are so precious to me and the greatest blessings in my life. Today God has gently reminded me that life is a gift and to cherish every moment we have. So today I am thankful that Silas has a job and supports us, that Ty smiles at me and talks to me and lays his head on my chest to fall asleep, and that I am healthy and happy and have another second, minute, hour and day to enjoy and love my boys to the best of my ability.
posted by Lauren at
10:44 AM
4 Comments:
Well said.
Nancy F.
Lauren,
You are truly an awesome person! I love to read about your new adventures with Ty and Silas. Ty is absolutely beautiful. I can't wait to see him in person one day!
Once again I admire you and where it has taken my many years to relize the truly important things in life, you already have a grip on them.
I feel more and more proud of you each day. Thanks for sharing. I love watching how YOU love.
Lauren, it's been such a blessing to me to read this post and to see you learn and adjust to being a mother. You are doing a fabulous job! Ty is so blessed to have you as his mommy!
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